Close to family and friends
Jacob and Camilla Bonde were even more drawn to Southern Jutland after becoming parents. They decided to move back to Als when they both graduated in 2017 as they wanted to be closer to their family. First, they lived in a rented house in Dybbøl for a year to settle into their new – yet familiar – surroundings and new jobs. Jacob currently works as a strategy consultant in the executive secretariat at Sydbank in Aabenraa, while Camilla is a team leader at the Danish Agricultural Agency in Augustenborg. After six years, they now live in Hørup – just ten minutes from each of their parents.
It’s a great pleasure to have both sets of parents close by on a daily basis, and they see each other often.
“It just makes everyday life more fulfilling. We have a good relationship and enjoy each other’s company. We’re grateful for that, and we wouldn’t want it any other way,” says Jacob.
The grandparents are also happy to lend a helping hand. Every other Thursday, Jacob’s parents pick up their grandchildren – William, who is now almost seven years old, and his little brother Ditlev, who was born in June 2019. Camilla’s parents also regularly look after the two boys when they have weekends off. And then there’s all the practical help with the house.
“It could be anything like: ‘We have this issue with the house, can you help?’”, says Jacob.
“Or: ‘There’s something wrong with the dishwasher’. They still come over and help,” Camilla laughs.
The idea of being closer to friends in the Sønderborg area was also a decisive factor in the couple returning home to Als. Jacob still sees the boys from his school in Hørup, and both he and Camilla also meet up with some of their former classmates from Business College Syd.
“We’ve each held on to the network we had down here from business college, and it’s still alive and well. That was definitely one of the things that made coming home so appealing,” says Jacob.
“Our friends down here had had children. So coming home to others who were in the same boat also meant something,” says Camilla, adding that many of their other friends who left to study have since returned to the area.